â€œDid you ever stop to think that a dog is the only animal that doesnâ€™t have to work for a living? A hen has to lay eggs, a cow has to give milk, and a canary has to sing. But a dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love.â€ â€“Dale Carnegie
A few full moons and a gibbous ago, my boss Aaron Long handed me a book to read, How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie. My first thought was, â€œDoes this silly elf think I have no friends? The nerve!â€
On that note, name-calling does not get you friends. Instead, it will give you a cafeteria table all to yourself, unlimited movie nights alone, and ample time to catch up with your imaginary friends named Toffice and Skidmore. Livinâ€™ the dream right? But I digressâ€¦.
Come to find out, elves have terrific taste, and I havenâ€™t put the book down since the waning gibbous moon.
So who is Dale Carnegie and why do I believe that if he was still alive and kickinâ€™, he would be one of the greatest bloggers of our time? Dale Carnegie is your classic rags to riches tale. Grew up on a farm in Missouri, walked uphill to and from school, became a public speaking teacher, wrote a book blah blah blah. Donâ€™t get me wrong, the manâ€™s life is one to be marveled at. But more importantly, he lived his life with a genuine interest in other people. He realized the value in this notion and put it on paper to benefit humanity. I kid you not, after reading his book I answered all my phone calls with a huge smile, listened attentively during conversations and proceeded to rescue every stray dog that came in my path. No cats though. I have built up animosity towards them due to all the â€œdepositsâ€ they leave in my backyard on a daily basis. I didnâ€™t say Carnegieâ€™s book made me perfect ok?
What I am saying is if Carnegie was still around, I would invite him to come have a beer, watch a Dallas Cowboys football game, and discuss his latest blog on why â€œa man without a smiling face must not open a shop.â€ So without further a due, here are the top 5 reasons why Dale Carnegie would be an awesome blogger:
- Even in 1936, Carnegieâ€™s network of friends was unparalleled. Imagine discussing Pearl Harbor while sipping tea with Franklin D. Roosevelt, running lines with Clark Gable, sailing the Pacific with Martin Johnson or debating the manufacture of steel with Charles Schwab. Granted the locations are questionable due to my vivid imagination, but Carnegieâ€™s connection with these prominent figures were real. A successful blog has an immense followingâ€¦Carnegie had this following without [gasp] the internet.Â Carnegie discovered from personal experience that â€œone can win the attention and time and cooperation of even the most sought after people by becoming genuinely interested in them.â€
- Carnegie wrote storiesâ€¦excellent stories. He knew how to â€œbait the hook to suit the fishâ€ if you will. Arenâ€™t blogs essentially a compilation of news, recent happenings, daily occurrences, and stories? Alright then, I rest my case.
- Remembering peopleâ€™s names was of utmost priority for Carnegie. This leads me to believe that he would have done quite well on a network such as Twitter; @dcarnGmoney perhaps? Responding to people by their name, replying on Twitter, and commenting on blog posts once again reinforces Carnegieâ€™s idea that if you take interest in someone they will take interest in you. Why not give a little smile and a wink while youâ€™re at it, even if itâ€™s only an emoticon. We all know Carnegie would have ;-).
- Dale Carnegie â€œhustled.â€ To put it simply, he worked his derriÃ¨re off. Carnegie started with a set of rules on a note-card; evolving fifteen years later into a best-selling book and continues to influence people decades later. Over 15 million copies of his book have been sold and if there was a way to configure that into number of followers on a blog I would. Iâ€™m no scientist but Iâ€™m sure the data would be staggering. Modernly speaking, â€œâ€¦you too can have 70,000+ readers and write your own ticket to internet fame â€“ but it wonâ€™t happen by playing World of Warcraft every night.â€ â€“Chris Guillebeau, â€œHow to Be Awesomeâ€
- In the words of someone who truly understood the art of human relations, Carnegie saidâ€œâ€¦the royal road to a personâ€™s heart is to talk about the things that he or she treasures most.â€ I donâ€™t think I need to thump you on the head to understand this one. Carnegie would have been an awesome blogger.
Thanks Mexicanwave for the cool flickr pic!